Saturday, May 08, 2010

from Zen Habits

kindfully + mindfully

Posted: 07 May 2010 07:29 AM PDT

"Do every act of your life as if it were your last." ~Marcus Aurelius

Post written by Leo Babauta. Follow me on twitter or identica.

There's something so powerfully simple, profoundly beautiful, about the Dalai Lama's quote: "My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness."

It's a philosophy I've been exploring for awhile, and though I don't claim to have even come close to mastering it, it turns out this is a single word that can become the central tenet of your life, if you let it: "kindness".

Kindness can guide every interaction you have with others, can guide your life's work, can give meaning to your life, can even guide your eating, parenting, marriage, and more.

All else will melt away, if you let go of it, and leave only kindness.

Doing to others IS doing to yourself

The Golden Rule goes something along the lines of, "Treat others as you'd want to be treated (in their place)", but in another conception, how you treat others is how your treat yourself.

Consider: when you react to others with anger or meanness, you are putting yourself in an angry mindset, a bad mood. You'll likely feel pretty crappy for at least an hour, if not all day.

When you are uncaring or indifferent to others, you also create an empty, blank feeling in yourself, a void that cannot be filled with gadgets, social networking, shopping, food, or possessions.

When instead you are kind, you build a good feeling within yourself, you make yourself happy. In effect, you are being kind to yourself.

Other outward-facing actions have a similar inward effect: if you want to learn, teach. If you need inspiration, inspire others. If you're sad, cheer someone up.

mindfulness + kindfulness

It is near impossible, in my experience, to transition towards kindness without being mindful. Thoughtlessness leads to unkindnesses.

You must be mindful of every interaction with another human being. Approach each person mindfully, with your full attention, smiling, seeking to understand them, trying to interact with gentleness, warmth, compassion.

When someone comes to talk to you, when your kid tugs on your pant leg for attention, when your spouse or best friend starts speaking, turn to them without distraction, putting everything else away, and give your full attention. Listen.

Here's something beautiful: by treating others with kindness, you will create a happy feeling within yourself, effectively creating a positive feedback loop for your mindfulness. This will encourage you to be more mindful throughout your day, which will help you to treat others with yet more kindness, and so on.

Mindfulness and kindfulness feed on each other in a wonderful cycle.

Practicing the religion of kindness

This all, of course, takes careful practice, and the more you practice, the better you'll get at it.

There's an evolution in kindness, a process in which I'm still only near the middle (more likely in the beginning and just don't know it), where kindness can slowly infuse your life, transform everything you do.

Relationships: Your interactions and eventually your relationships with others, including friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, will slowly grow more positive, stronger.

Parenting: If you are a disciplinarian parent, learning to make every interaction with your child one centered on kindness will create a new type of relationship, and will teach your child how to be kind to others, by your example. Your actions are a much better teacher than your words.

Work: It might seem unrealistic, but it is possible to center your work around kindness. Gradually and purposefully make your work a living expression of your kindness, your love, in your interaction with your customers, co-workers, colleagues, the world … in what you produce and put out there.

Eating: A vegan diet is perhaps the kindest diet, all things being equal. This is from the belief that animals suffer when we put them in miserable living conditions, maim and shock them, kill them, for our pleasure. I'm not saying this to be self-righteous, or to make anyone feel guilty, but only for your kind consideration — to consider the animals as you eat. Consider also, as you are contemplating kindness, your eating's effects on farmers and workers, on your health and the health of your family, and on the environment.

Conclusions

It isn't easy to be kind on every possible human transaction, on every interaction we have throughout the day. It's far easier to be thoughtless. It can feel better to get back at someone when they are unkind to you (at least, it feels better at first). It takes less effort to not care.

But when we touch another person's life, our lives are being touched as well. What shape do you want your life to take? That will be completely determined by the effort you take to be mindful, and to be kindful.

"Wherever there is a human being there is an opportunity for kindness." ~Seneca

Wednesday, May 05, 2010

Working and playing

The previous post, that I forwarded from a newsletter I get by email, brought home to me once again how important it is to my life that I spend time doing what I WANT to do, instead of just doing what my DH wants me to do.
Sometimes I think he devotes more time to preventing me from doing what I want, than he does to doing what he wants. Or even maybe that he is finding his fulfillment in preventing mine. That is a harsh thing to say, but it often feels that way.

Words to live by

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5 Essential Zen Habits for Balanced Living

Posted: 04 May 2010 07:30 AM PDT

"Live a balanced life – learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some." – Robert Fulghum

Editor's note: This is a guest post from Anastasiya Goers of Balance In Me.

Do you sometimes wonder whether your life is in balance? It is easy to know if you lead a balanced life because if you do then:

- you enjoy every moment and every second,
- you can cope with any difficulties,
- you can be happy without any reason to be happy,
- you can be yourself and love the person you are.

Today the world constantly tries to throw you out of balance and sometimes no matter what you do you still feel like your life is going in the wrong direction (I know I feel this way sometimes.) Balanced living might seem like one of those theoretical terms that nobody can put into practice but in fact there is nothing simpler than living a balanced life.

It might take some work at first but once you get in the flow and discover the simple ways to steer your life in your desired direction you will feel empowered. You will be inspired and energized by every day of your life. Your life will be full of amazing adventures and events that will make every day memorable. You won't be wasting your life anymore or spending gloomy hours contemplating about the misfortunes that might have happened on your way.

Does balanced living mean that your life will be full of only positive people and events that will bring you happiness every moment of your life? Not at all.

Balanced living is when you can always offset any negative events in your life with positive ones. It is also when you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Balanced living is when you are happy working and playing equally. If you picture happiness and everything great in your life as a diamond, then any negative things that may happen are just the setting that makes this diamond shine only brighter.

If you want to live a balanced life then there are 5 essential habits that you need to develop.

  1. Awareness and mindfulness. Awareness is the key to balanced living because it lets you see every moment of your life and appreciate it. A mindful person lives in the present and does not get obsessed with the future or the past. It's important to plan for the future and learn from your mistakes in the past, but it is even more important to appreciate who you are right now and find joy in this state.
    When you are aware of this moment you are calm and you do not make any decisions that you might regret later.
    When you are mindful you are in balance with the universe.
  2. Appreciation of your body. By "appreciation" I mean taking care of your body. If you are grateful for the very first gift that you received in your life (your body) then you must take care of it. It means making healthy choices in life, exercising and being generally active, eating a balanced and healthy diet, letting your body rest when it's tired and pampering it every once in a while.
    Your body is the tool that lets you experience so many wonderful moments in life and you need to do your best when taking care of it.
    Clearly, balanced living is not possible without a balanced body.
  3. Creativity. Every day we face a lot of challenges and choices in life. Some of these challenges might be easy while others will be more difficult. If you approach each of your challenges with creativity then your life will be filled with adventures. Conversely, if you turn off your creativity, then your life will turn into torture.
    Creativity is a wonderful tool that lets us turn our dreams into reality, turn play into work and work into play, and enjoy life even when it seems empty.
    Creative people are the ones who can make the exquisite setting for the diamond of their life.
  4. Patience. With patience we can overcome almost anything whilst without it we can ruin almost anything.
    Patience can help us turn our dreams into reality (losing weight, starting a business or blog). It can help us be better parents, spouses, friends and even strangers (sometimes a smile from an understanding stranger can make the biggest difference when you are having a bad day). If you are patient you do not have to worry about the minutes spent in traffic or in the line at the grocery store. With patience you can see results in all your endeavors and you do not have to spend the precious time of your life getting mad or infuriated.
    Patience leads to mindfulness and mindfulness brings you in balance.
  5. Simplicity. Simplicity is probably the most important part of life balance. When you build your life around simplicity you reduce the number of out-of-balance things that can disrupt your happy living.
    In balance everything is simple. There are two opposites (like black and white) and you just have to pick something in the middle:
    • Simplify you work schedule so that you do not have to think about a hundred things at the same time.
    • Simplify your relationships by connecting with people you truly care about and getting rid of the ones you don't.
    • Simplify your diet by choosing simple healthy ingredients that are part of balanced nutrition.
    • Simplify your social media exposure and enjoy living life and getting things done rather than wasting time online.

    Simplicity makes life balance simple.

These habits have been my lifeline for many years and I cannot imagine a balanced (and happy) life without them.

Living in balance is easy and very rewarding because your life becomes the one of joy, happiness and serenity. If you put some time and effort into turning your life into a balanced direction then you too will live a truly Zen life.

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Friday, April 30, 2010

1 UFO finished!

Not quilted, of course. But I finally finished this quilt top that I was doing as a series quilt in Quilters Newsletter. I don't know when I will get around to quilting it, but at least its finished.
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Harvesting meat

We have butchered 5 young Cornish roosters in the last 2 days, so the freezer is stocked again. Every time we do it, I reflect on how much better these chickens' short lives were than the chickens people have to buy at the supermarket. It is hard to kill them, sure, but what about this?
Should we be eating meat at all if we are not willing to kill it ourselves? I have had many people tell me (proudly!) that they would become vegetarians if they had to kill their own meat. Well, yeah, I guess they should. I find it a warped sensibility to be proud that you cant/wont kill your own food but eat it as long as you dont have to acknowledge the animal it came from.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Latest corner block finished

Only 2 more corner blocks and one more center block to hand applique and then I can sew this quilt together. I don't know what I will do with it in the end. I started it in a class with Sue Nickols, and most of it was machine appliqued. I have only been doing hand applique on it for a few months, as I so rarely get a chance to use the sewing machine. I do have to sit and watch DVDs every bloody night though, so I have a chance to do handwork if I can do it in the dark.
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Sunday, March 28, 2010

From the Times

Op-Ed Columnist
The Rage Is Not About Health Care


By FRANK RICH
Published: March 27, 2010
THERE were times when last Sunday’s great G.O.P. health care implosion threatened to bring the thrill back to reality television. On ABC’s “This Week,” a frothing and filibustering Karl Rove all but lost it in a debate with the Obama strategist David Plouffe. A few hours later, the perennially copper-faced Republican leader John Boehner revved up his “Hell no, you can’t!” incantation in the House chamber — instant fodder for a new viral video remixing his rap with will.i.am’s “Yes, we can!” classic from the campaign. Boehner, having previously likened the health care bill to Armageddon, was now so apoplectic you had to wonder if he had just discovered one of its more obscure revenue-generating provisions, a tax on indoor tanning salons.
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But the laughs evaporated soon enough. There’s nothing entertaining about watching goons hurl venomous slurs at congressmen like the civil rights hero John Lewis and the openly gay Barney Frank. And as the week dragged on, and reports of death threats and vandalism stretched from Arizona to Kansas to upstate New York, the F.B.I. and the local police had to get into the act to protect members of Congress and their families.
How curious that a mob fond of likening President Obama to Hitler knows so little about history that it doesn’t recognize its own small-scale mimicry of Kristallnacht. The weapon of choice for vigilante violence at Congressional offices has been a brick hurled through a window. So far.
No less curious is how disproportionate this red-hot anger is to its proximate cause. The historic Obama-Pelosi health care victory is a big deal, all right, so much so it doesn’t need Joe Biden’s adjective to hype it. But the bill does not erect a huge New Deal-Great Society-style government program. In lieu of a public option, it delivers 32 million newly insured Americans to private insurers. As no less a conservative authority than The Wall Street Journal editorial page observed last week, the bill’s prototype is the health care legislation Mitt Romney signed into law in Massachusetts. It contains what used to be considered Republican ideas.
Yet it’s this bill that inspired G.O.P. congressmen on the House floor to egg on disruptive protesters even as they were being evicted from the gallery by the Capitol Police last Sunday. It’s this bill that prompted a congressman to shout “baby killer” at Bart Stupak, a staunch anti-abortion Democrat. It’s this bill that drove a demonstrator to spit on Emanuel Cleaver, a black representative from Missouri. And it’s this “middle-of-the-road” bill, as Obama accurately calls it, that has incited an unglued firestorm of homicidal rhetoric, from “Kill the bill!” to Sarah Palin’s cry for her followers to “reload.” At least four of the House members hit with death threats or vandalism are among the 20 political targets Palin marks with rifle crosshairs on a map on her Facebook page.
When Social Security was passed by Congress in 1935 and Medicare in 1965, there was indeed heated opposition. As Dana Milbank wrote in The Washington Post, Alf Landon built his catastrophic 1936 presidential campaign on a call for repealing Social Security. (Democrats can only pray that the G.O.P. will “go for it” again in 2010, as Obama goaded them on Thursday, and keep demanding repeal of a bill that by September will shower benefits on the elderly and children alike.) When L.B.J. scored his Medicare coup, there were the inevitable cries of “socialism” along with ultimately empty rumblings of a boycott from the American Medical Association.
But there was nothing like this. To find a prototype for the overheated reaction to the health care bill, you have to look a year before Medicare, to the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Both laws passed by similar majorities in Congress; the Civil Rights Act received even more votes in the Senate (73) than Medicare (70). But it was only the civil rights bill that made some Americans run off the rails. That’s because it was the one that signaled an inexorable and immutable change in the very identity of America, not just its governance.
The apocalyptic predictions then, like those about health care now, were all framed in constitutional pieties, of course. Barry Goldwater, running for president in ’64, drew on the counsel of two young legal allies, William Rehnquist and Robert Bork, to characterize the bill as a “threat to the very essence of our basic system” and a “usurpation” of states’ rights that “would force you to admit drunks, a known murderer or an insane person into your place of business.” Richard Russell, the segregationist Democratic senator from Georgia, said the bill “would destroy the free enterprise system.” David Lawrence, a widely syndicated conservative columnist, bemoaned the establishment of “a federal dictatorship.” Meanwhile, three civil rights workers were murdered in Philadelphia, Miss.
That a tsunami of anger is gathering today is illogical, given that what the right calls “Obamacare” is less provocative than either the Civil Rights Act of 1964 or Medicare, an epic entitlement that actually did precipitate a government takeover of a sizable chunk of American health care. But the explanation is plain: the health care bill is not the main source of this anger and never has been. It’s merely a handy excuse. The real source of the over-the-top rage of 2010 is the same kind of national existential reordering that roiled America in 1964.
In fact, the current surge of anger — and the accompanying rise in right-wing extremism — predates the entire health care debate. The first signs were the shrieks of “traitor” and “off with his head” at Palin rallies as Obama’s election became more likely in October 2008. Those passions have spiraled ever since — from Gov. Rick Perry’s kowtowing to secessionists at a Tea Party rally in Texas to the gratuitous brandishing of assault weapons at Obama health care rallies last summer to “You lie!” piercing the president’s address to Congress last fall like an ominous shot.
If Obama’s first legislative priority had been immigration or financial reform or climate change, we would have seen the same trajectory. The conjunction of a black president and a female speaker of the House — topped off by a wise Latina on the Supreme Court and a powerful gay Congressional committee chairman — would sow fears of disenfranchisement among a dwindling and threatened minority in the country no matter what policies were in play. It’s not happenstance that Frank, Lewis and Cleaver — none of them major Democratic players in the health care push — received a major share of last weekend’s abuse. When you hear demonstrators chant the slogan “Take our country back!,” these are the people they want to take the country back from.
They can’t. Demographics are avatars of a change bigger than any bill contemplated by Obama or Congress. The week before the health care vote, The Times reported that births to Asian, black and Hispanic women accounted for 48 percent of all births in America in the 12 months ending in July 2008. By 2012, the next presidential election year, non-Hispanic white births will be in the minority. The Tea Party movement is virtually all white. The Republicans haven’t had a single African-American in the Senate or the House since 2003 and have had only three in total since 1935. Their anxieties about a rapidly changing America are well-grounded.
If Congressional Republicans want to maintain a politburo-like homogeneity in opposition to the Democrats, that’s their right. If they want to replay the petulant Gingrich government shutdown of 1995 by boycotting hearings and, as John McCain has vowed, refusing to cooperate on any legislation, that’s their right too (and a political gift to the Democrats). But they can’t emulate the 1995 G.O.P. by remaining silent as mass hysteria, some of it encompassing armed militias, runs amok in their own precincts. We know the end of that story. And they can’t pretend that we’re talking about “isolated incidents” or a “fringe” utterly divorced from the G.O.P. A Quinnipiac poll last week found that 74 percent of Tea Party members identify themselves as Republicans or Republican-leaning independents, while only 16 percent are aligned with Democrats.
After the Civil Rights Act of 1964 was passed, some responsible leaders in both parties spoke out to try to put a lid on the resistance and violence. The arch-segregationist Russell of Georgia, concerned about what might happen in his own backyard, declared flatly that the law is “now on the books.” Yet no Republican or conservative leader of stature has taken on Palin, Perry, Boehner or any of the others who have been stoking these fires for a good 17 months now. Last week McCain even endorsed Palin’s “reload” rhetoric.
Are these politicians so frightened of offending anyone in the Tea Party-Glenn Beck base that they would rather fall silent than call out its extremist elements and their enablers? Seemingly so, and if G.O.P. leaders of all stripes, from Romney to Mitch McConnell to Olympia Snowe to Lindsey Graham, are afraid of these forces, that’s the strongest possible indicator that the rest of us have reason to fear them too.

Correction: Timothy Geithner’s title at the Federal Reserve Bank of New York was president and chief executive officer, not chairman, as I wrote here last week.
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

From the Daily Green

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Study: High Fructose Corn Syrup Worse Than Sugar
A new study finds high fructose corn syrup causes significantly more weight gain than table sugar.
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As if you needed another reason to avoid high fructose corn syrup (HFCS): researchers at Princeton University have found that HFCS is actually much worse than regular sugar when it comes to causing weight gain.
The study found that rats with access to HFCS gained significantly more weight than rats with access to table sugar -- even when they're caloric intake was the same. A second study by the researchers found that HFCS lead to long-term increases in body fat, obesity, and a rise in body fats called triglycerides.
Said Princeton psychology professor Bart Hoebel, "When rats are drinking high-fructose corn syrup at levels well below those in soda pop, they're becoming obese -- every single one, across the board. Even when rats are fed a high-fat diet, you don't see this; they don't all gain extra weight."
This new study contradicts earlier beliefs that high fructose corn syrup and table sugar were similar in that they both contained high levels of fructose. Instead, say the Princeton researchers, they now believe that fructose -- in HFCS -- and glucose -- in table syrup, may be processed by the body differently. Fructose is metabolized to produce fat, they believe, while glucose is processed as energy or stored as a carbohydrate in the muscles and liver.
Researchers also pointed out that since high fructose corn syrup was introduced 40 years ago, U.S. obesity rates have skyrocketed. In 1970 15% of the population was considered obese, and today around 1/3 of American adults qualify as obese.
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

From the High Country News

Taking back the country

Ed Quillen | Mar 22, 2010 12:14 PM

Colorado's political season got off to its official start on March 16 with precinct caucuses, but even before those gatherings, some candidates had ads on TV.

Among them was Jane Norton, former lieutenant governor and one of several candidates for the Republican nomination for the U.S. Senate. The seat was won by Democrat Ken Salazar in 2004. He was appointed Secretary of the Interior, and his appointed replacement, Michael Bennet, is also involved in a contest for his party's nomination, and his campaign has also aired some advertising.

Back to Norton. Part of her televised message is "We can take our country back."

Like many GOP candidates this year, she's trying to get some Tea Party support. And there's a message you see and hear at Tea Party events: "Let's take our country back" or "It's time we took our country back" or some variation thereof.

Indeed, the unofficial anthem of the movement is a song called "Take our Country Back" by Chris Cassone, who performed it at the 9/12 Rally in front of the U.S. Capitol. He also plans to be there singing it on March 27, when a traveling Tea Party "Just vote them out" series of rallies starts in Searchlight, Nev. (home town of Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid), and wends toward Washington, D.C., through Arizona, Utah and Colorado.

But just what do they mean by "Take our country back"? The song lyrics aren't much help; the lines point to the sinister powers of an unnamed "they," as in "Draw a line in the sand so they all understand" or "Soon they'll try to take away the only voices left that say the truth."

The phrase "take our country back" implies that there was a time when "we" had "our country," that something happened since then to dispossess "us," but "we" can organize to get it back.

Now, if this were a rallying point for the Utes, Navajo, Lakota or similar Native American nation, "take our country back" would make sense. I'd understand it.

It might also make sense for hard-core Texans or Californians, since those states were independent republics before joining the United States. While there may be some secessionist sentiment in the Lone Star State these days, the "take our country back" attitude extends far beyond its borders.

So what do they have in mind? Who's the "they" that has at some point swiped the country from its rightful rulers?

Politicians? Since America started governing itself, the government has, pretty much by definition, been run by politicians. So they're nothing new.

Lobbyists? They've been around pretty much since, well, before America was a nation -- Benjamin Franklin went to London in 1757 to lobby the British parliament on behalf of Pennsylvania's.

Pundits? Well, there's Franklin again, along with many other founding fathers, like Alexendar Hamilton and James Madison when they produed the Federalist Papers.

As for economic domination, you could make the case that America was pretty well run by slaveholders before 1861, and after the Civil War came industrialists and financiers. So that may be what's changed, in the sense of there being something to go back to. But I seriously doubt that the "take our country back" rallies are really calling for a return to chattel slavery.

So even though "take our country back" resonates as a slogan, I can't figure out what it means. And I'm a rural white guy with no college degree -- that is, part of the demographic group that really should be able to understand Tea Party slogans.


Sunday, March 21, 2010

Maybe, another interview

Someone from HR called me at home this afternoon, on Sunday no less, and asked me questions about my background and experience in preparation for, perhaps, an interview for a parttime bed placement position I have applied for. It may just be for a token interview, since she several times talked about how many "internal" applications there have been for the position. I don't know what mine was, if not "internal". At the end she did say she would forward my info to the hiring manager for the position first thing Monday morning. So maybe I will get an interview. That would be a perfect position. I would stay in touch with the ER and the ER people I worked with, without being exposed to every virus and sickness that crosses the threshold there. I love the ER, but I can barely afford to work there when I catch so many bugs and have to go to the doctor and/or call in sick.
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Sunday, March 07, 2010

Sick but working

Believe me, if I had health insurance, I would not be working tonight. But I can't afford to take the time off with no pay, no work, and I cant afford to go to the doctor without having insurance either. I probably should make a serious effort to transfer to Ob or Inpatient or SOMETHING else, as working in the ER seems to just cause a cycle of being sick, working, being sick, etc.
But most of my coworkers seem to be sick too. We have all had colds, and I at least am on the second round of a cold in the last month. SOre throat, congestion, coughing. Grrrrr.

Thursday, March 04, 2010

Bobcat encounter

I would like to give credit for this photo to whoever took it, but I can't find the original again. Sorry.
On my way home today, in broad daylight, a bobcat crossed the dirt road in front of me, less than 1/4 mile from home. I stopped, and he stopped, not 2 car lengths away from me, and we just looked at each other. Gosh, he was so beautiful, with deep rich color and his fur was thick and looked so soft. He was bigger than I thought bobcats are, about the size of Sam, when I thought they were about the size of Robin. Eventually, he turned and ambled away toward the river bottom.
If a bobcat were to kill all our chickens, I guess we would just have to make our chicken pens stronger, because I wouldn't want to kill a bobcat since I have looked into his eyes.
My bobcat was a deeper richer brown than this photo, and his head was bigger in proportion to his body. This photo is of a Florida bobcat, and mine is an Arizona bobcat.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Bloglines - Who do our political parties really care about?

Bloglines user ajw1981@live.com has sent this item to you, with the following personal message:

He is SOOO right!


No Impact Man

Who do our political parties really care about?

By Colin Beavan aka No Impact Man

Yesterday, I read about the deadlock in Congress over dealing with our deficit and I felt just sickened. I twittered:

"I've begun to think that both parties care more about institutional survival than our national and planetary survival."

This, in turn, got fed to my "status" on my Facebook page, where lots of people started commenting. Eventually, a comment came from Joseph Romm, who writes Climate Progress. Joe is a senior fellow at the Center for American Progress, a Democratic think tank started by Bill Clinton's chief of staff, John Podesta.

Here is the comment that Joe left on my Facebook page:

"Uhh, 90% of one party want a climate bill and 90% of the other doesn't even believe it's a problem. So how can you equate them?!"

But apparently Joe doesn't realize what it looks like to a regular citizen when a party doesn't do something meaningful about something it claims to care about.

Joe doesn't realize how demoralizing it is for the average American citizen to see federal politicians of any complexion making compromises with our planet's future ability to support us well.

He doesn't realize what it is like to hear the words "clean coal"--a term made up by the coal industry lobbyists--on the lips of the party we thought would be aggressive on climate--the Democrats.

So this is what I wrote back to him on my Facebook page:

I'll tell you, Joe, someone who gives you hope and never lives up to the promise feels more like a betrayer sometimes than someone who never gave you hope in the first place.

When the Democrats actually had a chance, when they owned the Senate, they gave us a lackluster climate bill in the House. One might argue, therefore, since they *believe* in climate change, that they are more culpable.

They believe in it, yet they strived for what they believe is politically possible instead of scientifically necessary. Where was the leadership from the White House? The Democrats pandered as the bill worked its way through the House and you know it.

I'm not saying that individual Democrats didn't bleed to push through a bill on climate, but as an institution, the Democratic party let us down.

And honestly, US performance in Copenhagen--where we held the recent international climate talks--under Democratic leadership? Abysmal.

To say we shouldn't be disappointed in the Democrats and feel that they don't put the people first and haven't acted as leaders on this issue because the Republicans would have done worse is disingenuous.

I really respect your work, Joe. I take a lead on climate from you. But not on politics. You can argue with me, but you're a party insider. I am a voter who is passionate about saving this planet's ability support us well. And I am disappointed by the Dems.

You can't in good conscience tell me I'm wrong on this because you know I'm right.

And the reason it is important to say this out loud is because--while I will continue to vote for the party with the best climate policy and suggest others do the same--I also know that we the people have to find a way to move beyond passive dependence on corporatized federal politicians.

The people have to take charge. We have to change our lives, change our business, change our city governments, change our state governments, change our culture.

We have to work together to find and implement a way to have better and happier lives that use fewer planetary resources. We know now that even a blue flush in the House, Senate and White House won't do the trick.

We need to use politics but move way beyond it at the same time. And for a party insider like you to say otherwise would only prove my point.

And that is why I say that I think the parties care more about their institutional survival than about the people or the planet.

I'm sorry to go on, but the politics of Washington are defunct. The Democratic politicians want to beat the Republicans. The Republican ones want to beat the Democratic ones. They are, like the rest of us, scared for their jobs!

But the American people? We just want to get along with each other and solve problems. We want happy lives and to be kind to our neighbors. We want leaders who care about us more than their own careers.

I'm sorry. I say this as no one special. I'm just another voter. But as another voter, I have to say the politicians of the United States are letting us down.

The good news is that we're better than that. So how do we, the people take charge of our country, fill it with the love we have in hearts and take care of ourselves, each other and the whole world in a way we can be proud of?


Saturday, February 13, 2010

Photos didnt make it into previous post


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What am I working on now?


The top photo is of the wall hanging I started in the class with Suzanne Marshall at Quilting in the Desert. I am now officially obsessed with hand applique.
The photos with the black backgrounds are from a machine applique class I took from Sue Nichols at Quilting in the Desert a couple of years ago. It has been a UFO since then, but now I have pulled it out and will finish with mostly hand applique. The original pattern was 9 blocks, but I wanted it rectangular instead of square. So I have 5 more blocks to do. Yay, because I am doing them in a small blanket stitch and I can do that when watching DVDs. The needleturn of the top wall hanging (which still has the outer blue border to be done) requires very good light.
The very bottom picture is one block of a 4-block machine qpplique that I am doing as a series quilt in Quilters Newsletter. I am using a small satin stitch around the appliques. So on the rare occasions I get to work on a machine, I work on it.
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New baby chicks


These chicks were hatched in Texas on 02112010 and sent priority mail to us, arriving Friday morning. We ordered 25 and Ideal Hatchery sent 28, all arriving in good health. These are Buff Cornish, adding to DH's Cornish flock. He already has Dark Cornish and White-Laced Red Cornish, and I have 2 Buff Orpingtons to provide a steady supply of eggs. All the Cornish are poor layers but great eating.
We will end up eating over half of these. All but one of the roosters will be food and likely some of the hens too. Depends on how much DH likes them when they grow up and whether he wants to interbreed with his other color varieties.
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Monday, February 08, 2010

Accomplished

Well, assisted living is accomplished, and everybody is happy. She is in the same facility as her boyfriend and several doors down from him, as well as near the game room and library there. Suhc a relief, and what a novelty to spend the evening with my husband on my rare nights off from the ER.
I do seem to be posting my thoughts and links mostly to Facebook nowadays, though. I guess that is because maybe somebody will read it there, and very few people ever seem to read this blog.